Don't Lose Your Focus
To illustrate a point this mental tip is a response to a question from one of the subscribers to my weekly mental golf tip newsletter. His dilemma is typical of many golfers who lose site of the forest because of all the trees. First, I'll let you see his situation. Then, I'll give you my response.
"I have a "mental problem" that bugs me and sometimes affects my game. A couple years ago I was playing and an older friend was on the tee. I was behind his line and he flubbed the shot. He got mad at himself and after some prodding it came out that he can't hit well with people in front of or in back of his line.
"Maybe I caused it myself, but then I realized when people are on my line, front or back, I mishit drives or screw up putts. Since then I have gone on a mini crusade to have people stand in the "right" place, ie. off the line and somewhat out of sight. The rule book says on the first page of etiquette not to stand in front of or in back of one addressing the ball.
"Sometimes I have to tell the same people 5-6 times a round to get off my line. I ask them where would Tiger stand for a Duval shot? They say we're not pros. But, it really shouldn't make a difference. Frequently, they want to see how the putt goes and get a free read, but I have to move them away. Their lack of consideration & etiquette causes me to lose some concentration and throws off some shots.
"These guys are friends otherwise... I addressed our club annual meeting and they shined it to 'let's try to be considerate of others" They didn't want to make a big deal out of it. I'm ready to bring the rule book out & show them. Any ideas?"
Right or wrong, he has allowed his situation to get blow out of proportion and affect his game. Here is my reply.
The answer to your question is simple. Reread Chapter 6 of The Mental Keys - Thoughts: Facts and Emotions. It's not fair or proper that other golfers don't care or pay attention to where they stand. However, it is merely a fact and you are allowing it to get you angry and upset which throws off your concentration and chemistry.
Just learn to treat is as a fact and hit or putt the ball. Even Tiger Woods had to learn to ignore cameras clicking in the middle of his backstroke. Please see that attached tip - The Ryder Cup: Facts and Emotion (which can be found in my tip archive) for comments about Colin Montgomerie and how he deals with hecklers.
The big lesson to learn is that we tend to let our negative emotions get in the way of what we are trying to accomplish. Train your mind that facts are merely facts and don't let them become an excuse for you losing your focus.
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